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Sedating Dr. Strangelove, Part 2
10 Jun 2006
After publishing my previous piece on working with rheumatoid arthritis, I realized that it was missing a crucial piece. Because I left out this crucial piece the first time I used the TH & SP sedating and strengthening points, what at first seemed like a spectacular success fizzled out into a bewildering failure. Tom (pseudonym, of course!) was a prosperous semi-retired business owner who looked to be in his mid-sixties. He suffered constant pain from a rare form of rheumatoid arthritis. He came to me because he wanted some relief from the pain. He was on a very powerful pain medication; he explained that it was so toxic that once a year he had to travel to Johns Hopkins University to have his liver tested to make sure the medication wasn't inflicting too much damage on it. (I noticed the peculiar sense of pride in his tone when he said this, but let my attention slide over it.) After our first session together, a mix of Jin Shin Jyutsu® and shiatsu, Tom commented that he had seen beautiful colors and felt absolutely blissful. However, as he got up, he was obviously still in tremendous pain. I asked him whether he felt any lessening of his pain at all; he said he did not, but that it had nevertheless been a wonderful session and he was looking forward to another appointment. People often won't feel the effects for a day or so, so the following week I asked him if he'd felt any better during the week. He hadn't. Once again he'd experienced another blissful session – but no cessation of pain. He made another appointment. Continuing pain or no, he was content with his hour of bliss – BUT I WAS NOT! When I got home, I started poring through my books, trying to figure out something to try that I hadn't thought of yet. I had recently bought Donna Eden's "Energy Medicine," and for the first time read her ideas about using Triple Heater and Spleen points in autoimmune disorders. I was eager to try out her ideas during my next session with Tom. I used the new technique the next time I saw him. In addition to his usual sense of bliss, he reported that he did seem to feel somewhat less pain. I was quite excited to notice that he got off the table with significantly more ease. When he came in for his fourth session incorporating the new technique, he said that he felt pain-free for the first time in five years. I was thrilled! He told me he was going to have to skip his next session because it was time for his yearly pilgrimage to Johns Hopkins to have his liver examined. When he returned a couple of weeks later, we resumed. Later that week, he called me to confess that he'd secretly suspected that the reason his pain had vanished was because the medication he was taking had finally kicked in. But not having been able to come for a couple of weeks, the pain had returned. After getting a session upon his return, the pain had vanished once again, so now he knew for sure that it was the energywork that was doing the trick. Now is where it gets really interesting. The following week, he was a no-show. Very unusual behavior for Tom! When I called to reschedule, he apologized, saying he'd just gotten too busy, and maybe he could come the following week. He would call me - he was just too busy this week. It turned out he was just too busy the next week, too. He would call me when he had some time. Several weeks later, I gave him a call, saying I hoped that the reason he wasn't coming any longer was because he was still pain-free. No, he said, he was in bad pain again, but he was just soooo busy! I reminded him that I'd written directions for doing the sedating and strengthening points so his wife could hold them for him, and that might be sufficient to keep the pain at bay. Well, actually, she was pretty busy, too. No, she really didn't have time for all that. He'd give me a call. I never heard from him again. To put this in context: being wealthy and semi-retired, he could easily afford the sessions, and for nearly two months had seemed to have all the time in the world. His wife did not work at all. It struck me that when my efforts had been making no impact on his pain whatsoever, he happily made time to see me. Once he knew definitively that the work I was doing really could get rid of the pain, he suddenly could not find the time to come, and he and his wife could not find the time to work on his pain 25 minutes a day once or twice a week. I was bewildered. At the time, I eventually just chalked it up to his not wanting to give up the special status he felt – hey! Tom had to make a yearly Pilgrimage to the prestigious Johns Hopkins to get his liver checked out because of his thrillingly toxic experimental pain medication that didn't work! But looking back, I realize it may very well have been because our work was incomplete. I know now that rheumatoid arthritis is often involved with great stress of some kind. I now consider an essential aspect of working with a person with this sort of challenge to be the question, "Right here, right now, where in your body are you feeling stress?"* And I then proceed to run energy into that area. The last time I worked with a person with rheumatoid arthritis, I found that some of the biggest releases of blocked energy occurred at this point in the session. I wonder now – if I had asked this question of Tom, might the blocked emotional energy involved have begun moving to the surface? Who knows? Maybe he just couldn't give up his yearly pilgrimage to Johns Hopkins to monitor the toxicity of the apparently useless pain medication he was taking. The desire to get better is not always as straightforward as we might like it to be. But perhaps it was just a matter of going a little deeper. Perhaps if I'd known to ask him a simple question - "Where in your body do you feel the stress?" – and run some energy there, we could have stirred up the stuck energy a little more thoroughly. Maybe some of his conflicting "negative intentions" could have come to consciousness and be let go. And maybe he could have truly let go of his pain. I'll never know for sure. I'll just have to keep asking that question of my clients. And running energy. And paying attention to what happens. I'll let you know what I find out over time. And let me know what you find out, too!
------------------------------------------------------------- *This wonderfully concise and powerful little question was provided by Jane Rees (a/k/a creativejani) through the Q-T message board. --------------------------------------------------------------
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Jocelyn Jacks Kahn
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